June 2010 Feature Article
|
|
From the Outside In Other Nonprofits that Serve Children of Incarceration Kinship Partners, Brainerd Pam Bundy, program coordinator for Brainerd Area Kinship Partners, was surprised when she first learned that more than 30 percent of the children in her adult-child mentorship program are affected by a parent’s incarceration. “These kids definitely need some adult consistency in their lives,” she said, “and that’s one area where a mentor can make a huge difference.” It has in the life of 15-year-old “Anne,” whose father has been in prison since she was in elementary school. Anne will be 18 and emancipated before he is considered for release. Anne has grown to depend on her friendship with her Kinship mentors, Elise and Don Mink. They have been an important part of her life since she was 10 years old. “They help me a lot,” Anne said. “If I’m stressing over something I can tell them about it and they’ll give me advice. That’s a lot better than getting teenager advice.” Their friendship has deepened over the years, developing trust, traditions and fond memories. They laugh often and gently tease each other as they talk of volunteering together at community events, window shopping, eating out and attending sports events. “We have lots of fun and we learn new things,” she said. “They’re like family and friends all in one.” |
|
|
![]() | ||
| For information on volunteering or launching a coalition that helps children of incarcerated parents, contact: Sara Dahlquist Initiative Foundation Program Manager 877-632-9255 or sdahlquist@ifound.org | ||
“We have a lot of programs in place for children and families,” said Bauer. “We just need to figure out how to make things work better for that particular group of kids.”
According Julie Kettner, regional coordinator for Child Care Resource and Referral, the biggest problem is finding the children in the first place. Through her work with childcare providers, she is involved with the IOC coalitions inMille Lacs, Pine and Kanabec Counties.
“How many children are out there? We don’t know. That’s what we’re trying to find out,” Kettner said. “There are no statistics. It’s not something that you tell anybody when you enroll in school.We’re trying to reach the families and caregivers through this project.”
![]() | |
| Linda Kaufmann, Initiative Foundation and Lucy Bauer, Stearns County IOC Coalition |
|
|
Girl Scouts Beyond Bars Beyond Bars helps girls whose mothers are incarcerated at the Minnesota Correctional Facility–Shakopee. Carolyn Kolovitz, community specialist with Girl Scouts of Minnesota andWisconsin River Valleys, works with groups of girls in the Twin Cities area, offering them the chance to participate in Girl Scout activities, summer camps and field trips. “These girls are the heroes in their own stories,” Kolovitz said. “They’ve faced challenges and villains. They’ve overcome challenges. Now they can decide where they want their stories to go from here.” Kolovitz takes the girls to visit their mothers in prison. Through guided activities, she encourages the mothers to share their dreams and aspirations and offer advice for mistakes they’d like their daughters to avoid. “They connect with each other and learn from each other in ways that would absolutely not happen during a regular prison visit,” said Kolovitz. |
|
|
